Brenda Ngxoli's live interview with her daughter sparks controversy over work-life balance

Actress Brenda Ngxoli with her daughter on her lap during an interview.

Actress Brenda Ngxoli with her daughter on her lap during an interview.

Published Mar 11, 2025

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In a moment that has both captivated and divided audiences, South African actress Brenda Ngxoli recently took centre stage in a conversation about work-life balance when she conducted a live interview with her young daughter perched on her lap.

The interview, which aired on Newzroom 405 while Ngxoli promoted her new film, "A Scam Called Love", has reignited discussions around the appropriateness of bringing children into the workplace.

Footage of the interview, which has been widely circulated on the social media platform X, formerly known as Twitter, showcases Ngxoli, a ten-time Saftas nominee, discussing her film.

At the same time, her daughter sits relaxed on her lap. For some, this moment has become a rallying point for parental rights, but it has raised eyebrows about professional boundaries and childcare responsibilities for others.

Followers voiced their disapproval, suggesting that Ngxoli, who has experienced significant recent success, should have made alternative childcare arrangements for her daughter.

One user, @Jikingqina, questioned, "Why is she still taking a child to interviews? She has some money now; can someone look after a child for an hour?"

This sentiment reflects a larger societal expectation surrounding working mothers and their responsibilities.

However, not all voices echoed criticism; many came to Ngxoli's defence.

Supportive comments flooded in, including one from @usernamemagmd, who praised her decision to keep her daughter close, stating, "I think it's wonderful that she is with her daughter. Well done, mamma.”

A similar sentiment was echoed by @Future_billy, who highlighted a perceived double standard in societal reactions: “Y'all were fine with Musk bringing kids to interviews, but when Brenda does it, it's wrong?”

The discourse surrounding Ngxoli's interview comes on the back of her recent revelations about her home life.

She has publicly shared the complexity of her situation following a heated exchange with her mother, in which allegations of abuse were made - a matter Ngxoli has firmly denied.

This personal turmoil has seen the actress receive an outpouring of support - from emotional backing to financial assistance - and even prompted her to move out of her family home.

As the conversation unfolds, it reveals underlying societal attitudes towards parenting, particularly for women in the workforce.

Critics and supporters alike highlight a need for companies and society to foster environments where parenting can coexist alongside professional responsibilities, reducing the stigma associated with bringing children into workspaces.

Ngxoli is not alone in her choices; notable figures like Musk have also integrated their children into their professional lives, creating a cultural dialogue about the nature of modern employment and parenting.

Musk, often seen with his young children at high-profile events and meetings, has even described his son, Lil X, as his "emotional support human".

This bears further examination of the workplace norms that various public figures promote.

As this discourse expands, it begs the question: Should working parents be free to include their children in their professional lives, or should boundaries remain strictly enforced?

The conversation is far from resolved as society grapples with the balance between work and family life.